ir_rule.xml

<?xml version="1.0"?>
<odoo>
    <data noupdate="0">
        <record model="ir.rule" id="tandur_partner_contact_rule">
            <field name="name">tandur.partner.contact.rule</field>
            <field name="model_id" ref="model_res_partner"/>
            <field name="groups" eval="[4,ref('group_tandur_user')]"/>
            <field name="domain_force">
                ['|','|',('id','=',user.partner_id.id), ('parent_id','=',user.partner_id.id), ('create_uid','=',user.id)]
            </field>
            <field name="perm_read" eval="True"/>
            <field name="perm_create" eval="True"/>
            <field name="perm_write" eval="True"/>
            <field name="perm_unlink" eval="True"/>
        </record>
    </data>
</odoo>